WHY HAVE YOU BECOME SO IRRITATING!

A pal recently talked about how when we first meet someone we are drawn to them because of their generosity, nurturing ways, their smile, their intelligence, their sense of fashion, or simply because they make us feel good on some level, then after a period of time what originally attracted us has now become an irritant, a turn off, pulling us apart. Now for the pondering bit, why is this, why does it happen? My conclusion is the reason we were attracted to that person is because at a level unknown to us we needed, desired what that person could feed us, as an example this could have been nurturing, were we in a place where we felt hard done by, deceived, let down so the nurturing attention we received help support us back to full health where we once again felt confident to move forward standing taller, then once we have achieved our hidden goal this is when the other person's now seen as irritating ways become a major part of the relationship and we just wan`t to move onto another energy that will feed us with what we need to heal expand or develop another part of who we are or wish to become. With love, Lyn x