WHEN YOUR UNKIND

From the little book *Why Am I Afraid To Tell You Who I Am?* I`ve learnt I don`t need to react to the appalling behaviour of some people..why would I allow myself to become emotionally involved and spoil my day, my energy and peace of mind because someone has an unpleasant nature they wished to share with me at any given time. I recently experienced this on a personal level and I`m sure the other person believed I didn`t value myself enough to respond, what really happened was they devalued themselves to the point their words meant nothing to me so I had nothing to respond to...there is another lesson in this, just because someone`s hackles are not raised doesn`t mean the other person has got away with being unkind for me it just means I no longer feel connected to that person...With love, Lyn x