Blaming and Regretting are not in my belief system, are they in yours?

 I thought I would write to you about my waking moments. This is the time when spirit will make me aware of who healing is going to and where along with popping any thoughts into my head that can help me or another to come to a conclusion in a situation or to give clarity to a long lost thought/pattern of thoughts....this mornings word is BLAME....now this word is not one that sits in my vocabulary so it must have come to me for me to share...To blame this person, that person to me would be like me handing over my life to another to be responsible for it...how can I blame another for where I am today..I am here at this stage of my life because of me, yes, that`s right, because of the role I played in any given relationship.....we all play our parts to the best of our ability at that given time, there`ll be misunderstandings because one or both didn`t ask the right questions (isn`t that because there wasn`t a right question to ask at the time or it would have been asked) life is played out as we wish it to be so to then blame another seems absolutely ridiculous to me and a total waste of energy, just the same as REGRET...why would I or anyone regret something, to regret must mean I would have gone against my own beliefs...eg, had I tried to manipulate someone only to have them see through me and to have failed to gain what I had set out to do, because I would not have been being true to myself or the other person in failing what I was attempting, there would be regret that i`d not succeeded my taking another action to gain whatever it was I wished to gain....so lovely FB peeps who are going through some unpleasant stuff right now I can only suggest you step away from the BLAME syndrome and don`t behave in a way you will later REGRET ...I wish for us all to be totally blameless and to never feel the emotion of regret. Love love love, Lyn x