Do you trust yourself to feel all of the above, do you believe you deserve to feel good and to be happy with whatever is going on in your life... that doesn't mean you have to dismiss all the crap stuff, yes, deal with it when the poop pops up but the bit in between can be really joyous.
Don't allow a crap situation to completely destroy your day as there will be many golden moments that can be missed while worrying about that one situation...
Bring on the love, with love, Lyn